Culture – the way of life of a group of people passed down from one generation to the next through learning
Enculturation – learning our native culture(s) in childhood
Acculturation – adapting to another culture
Culture shock – the stress associated with acculturation

Friday, May 2, 2008

Gerson trashes understanding

Apparently, trying to understand why people believe what they believe is condescending. Just like helping poor people feed their families, giving the middle class a leg up in putting their kids through college is demeaning, or passing an Equal Rights Amendment would be insulting to women. I guess that's compassionate conservatism.

Being two things at once

The other night, BelmontMedina and I were discussing the democratic primary (still):

Natacha: you know, Obama could probably convince a lot of people to get over their racism by emphasizing that he's half-white and was raised by white people.
BelmontMedina: yeah but that would antagonize black voters, they'd think he was being uppity or something.
Natacha: why can't he be two things at the same time?
BelmontMedina: Americans don't think like that - you think like that because you're French.
Natacha: French people don't think like that either. I think like that because I'm bicultural.

When I was little I used to tell people I was half-French and half-American, and my mom would correct me, saying that I'm all French AND all American, and that is in fact how I feel, 20 years down the road. In the eyes of others my label depends on their perspective. In the States, people say I'm French, in the same way that Maruka is Mexican or that Jenneepah is Korean. The "-American" part of my identity is assumed. In France on the other hand, I am either "d'origine americaine" (of American origin) or people will say "elle vit aux Etats-Unis" (she lives in the US). The greatest confusion is when I'm in another country altogether - I have to introduce myself as either French or American, otherwise it gets too confusing. At the same time, I never feel as much myself as when I'm traveling outside of the US or France. That's about the only time I get to be "just Natacha," without having to decide between being a local or a foreigner.

EJ Dionne on Wright (and Falwell)

"To condemn it without understanding its roots only serves to widen the chasm of misunderstanding that exists between the races." - Senator Barack Obama, March 2008

I made a conscious decision several months ago to avoid election coverage as much as possible, at least until the Democratic nomination is settled. Nothing turns me off like vicious mud-slinging, and it would be great to still like the eventual nominee when November rolls around. That said, the vitriol surrounding Obama's relationship with Rev. Wright has been bugging me for some time - other prominent politicians have had just as close ties to religious zealots of all stripes without anywhere near the level of condemnation - why is that?

E. J. Dionne's column in the WaPo today asked - Do white right-wing preachers have it easier than black left-wing preachers? Is there a double standard?

I think it's pretty clear that there is - the real question is why. In politics as in life, you have to watch who you offend. The departed Jerry Faldwell and the like take shots at gays, unwed mothers, religious minorities (including atheists, agnostics and secularists), undocumented immigrants and others who are either lack political influence or were unlikely to support them in the first place. As Dionne points out, it's also more acceptable to criticize behavior depicted as an individual choice than to criticize the structure of American or global society.

Despite efforts in recent decades to shed light of the contributions of people other than white, Christian, heterosexual men to American history, the "default" American citizen in our collective psyche is still a white, Christian, straight man. The fact that "white men" being discussed as a distinct demographic in the democratic primary is a step in the right direction, but the fact remains that people who fit that description face less scrutiny than the rest of us. Hillary Clinton's candidacy has been replete with misogynist double-standards (remember the choked-up incident? the senate floor cleavage? rush limbaugh's shameful comments about "america not wanting to watch a woman age for four years" ? do i need to go on?), I'm slightly surprised that it took this long for Obama to be the target of something similar.

Charles Krauthamer's piece accuses Obama of "playing on white guilt" by having "the audacity to suggest that whites should be ashamed that they were ever surprised by Wright's remarks" (what Obama actually said: "The fact that so many people are surprised to hear that anger in some of Reverend Wright's sermons simply reminds us of the old truism that the most segregated hour of American life"). Ironically, Krauthamer's rant only serves to support Obama's point: "maintream America" doesn't know nearly as much about the lives, thoughts and experiences of their compatriots as they think they do.

How many anti-immigration advocates could describe the dire conditions that drive mothers and fathers to cross the Rio Grande? How many pro-lifers have been scared teenagers themselves? Why isn't the lack of decent maternity leave and affordable, quality child-care the hot-button political issue that it should be?

I don't agree with Wright. However, there are lots of people in this country and around the world who do think that HIV was created by the US government and released in Africa, either on purpose or by accident, and probably even more who think 9/11 was caused by American terrorism (that, of course, depends on your defnition of terrorism - more on that later). There are also lots of people who think 9/11 was perpetrated by the US government to justify launching a war on terror, or by a global conspiracy of Jewish bankers. There are all sorts of crazy theories out there about everything (creationism? geocentrism? trickle-down economics? my dad's theory that Sarkozy is a Scientologist?), but I don't think censorship (including censorship by punditry) is the right way or the American way to deal with controversy, as daft as some people's ideas may seem.

Finally, lots of seemingly insane theories turn out to be right, and if the choice is between blanket condemnation of non-mainstream ideas (like Krauthamer seems to propose) or accepting a greater diversity of public discourse, I think that's a n o-brainer. What would Western culture be without the Copernican Revolution? Of course, there's always the radical possibility of trying to understand where Wright & Co. come from and how they arrived at their conclusions.

Thursday, March 13, 2008

Intercultural Management Institute annual conference

I'm attending the IMI 9th Annual Conference at American this week and am actually blogging about the conference - check out my musings and those of the other super cool scholarship recipients at http://imiannualconferenceblog.blogspot.com/.

For those of you who are into this sort of stuff (you must be if you're reading this!), IMI is a great networking and professional development tool, I definitely recommend that you consider joining.

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

Saturday, March 8, 2008

I love the Cultural Orientation Research Center

This website may just be my new favorite thing ever: www.cal.org/co


In particular, I highly recommend the following resources for those of us working with Iraqis:

http://www.cal.org/co/iraqi/iraqitxt.html (written in 1995, but still good)

http://www.cal.org/co/muslims/muslim_refugees_final.pdf

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

"Anthropologists" examine artefacts and mores of White American Culture

A couple days ago someone sent me the link to this blog. Being on a conference call at the time (sic) I decided to check it out. To my intercultural delight, it turned out to be a hilarious yet very on-point discussion of the many peculiar attitudes, beliefs and behaviors that middler-to-upper-middle-class white Americans have in common. A Must-read for anyone who's ever been told that there's no such thing as American culture!